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9. Hit the Mute Button

True brilliance often lies in knowing when to quit. Not your job, just the hush-hush “I might want to make a career move” conversations. 

This cannot help you. Truly. If you’re “outta here” then smack that ball and get out of the park. If you’re putting out feelers, you need to remember who else is fishing in that pond. Negatives -- whether job or personnel related -- need to remain in their vacuum-sealed spaces unless divulged with care to the proper individuals.

Talking about “maybes” and “she should have”s is not helpful to your office or You. It's all about discretion.