9 Ways Job Interviews are Like Online Dating

A List of Things That are Unlucky in Love and Job Search

9. Don't Be Desperate

The most common cause of poor dating choices is loneliness and the fear of being alone. An empty space on Friday night's calendar leads many to pick anybody over nobody at all, starting downward spirals that lead to even lonelier places.

Similarly, the first instinct of the newly unemployed is to do a panic grab towards any position that might fill that 8-5, Monday-Friday space in their workweek. Better to breathe first, assess second and then make strategic moves. Desperation repels. Cloudy thinking will waste time, energy and opportunity. Rather than react, make a thoughtful choice.