In Part I of this article we discussed six common roadblocks faced in the workplace, and how to recognize them. In Part II we’ll talk about specific strategies that will allow you to knock down roadblocks, so you can happily and successfully reach your destination.
Instead of daydreaming about how great your life would be if you reached your goal, take action.
Strategy:
Adapt the adage “There’s no time like the present.” Set goals that are SMART—Specific, Measurable,Attainable, Relevent, and Time-Bound. Taking this important first step will break the cycle of daydreaming and will start a cycle of doing. For every goal you set, ask yourself the following questions:
Surround yourself with people who say you can, instead of those who say you can’t.
Strategy:
Minimize your contact with those who criticize your plans and goals, while actively seeking out people who support you. There are several ways to identify like-minded supporters:
When challenges bowl you over, stand up and persevere.
Strategy:
When Thomas Edison was asked about the number of times it took him to invent the electric lamp, he said, “I have not failed, I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.?When you are faced with failure, instead of giving up realize that failure is necessary to success, and ask yourself the following questions:
Don’t let fear of change keep you in your current situation.
Strategy:
Instead of focusing on reasons why you should stay put, focus on the benefits of change. When you find yourself clinging to familiarity, ask:
Stop blaming others, and take responsibility for your own situation.
Strategy:
When something goes awry, focus on what you did to contribute to the situation. Implicating yourself in your own success of failure will put you back in the drivers seat, and will allow you to positively change your situation. Ask yourself:
Strategy:
Assess your skills, resources, abilities, knowledge, and support systems, and make a plan for filling in any holes or gaps. Reframe past “failures” as “learning experiences,” and any time negative thoughts creep into your conscience, replace them without positive thoughts. When feeling insecure, ask yourself:
Anyone who has ever set a goal knows that roadblocks and barriers are inevitable. But in most cases all you need is a thoughtful strategy to knock them down and achieve success. Good luck!